Alzheimer’s Speaks host Lori La Bey joins Suzanne to talk how to give thanks to family caregivers on this Thanksgiving weekend, who put their lives on hold to take care of a senior loved one.
Lori says, “Sometimes I think it’s not even a formal thank you. And so a phone call or a card that just says I’m thinking of you, I’m praying for you. I love you. And then throw an offer out there. You want to go to a movie, you wanna go out to dinner, here’s a gift card for a massage. I mean, there’s so many different ways to do it. But I think those personal phone calls can really lift somebody up. You can laugh on a phone call. And that sometimes is really needed. Sometimes you can do that through a text, or an email. Just being able to remember and support them through all of life, it takes away [the feeling that] I’m not alone, that so many people have.”
Suzanne says, “If you know someone that is caring for a loved one and what kind of restaurant they love, there’s all kinds of services like Doordash and Grubhub. Order a meal and have it sent by surprise. One time we had an opportunity to do that for someone who was caring for their mom. I had it sent and, and I called, and I said, ‘Don’t make plans for dinner tonight.’ It was nothing for me to do it. It saves them hours of time not having to cook a meal and it brings some joy to their life.”
Lori adds, “We’re in the holiday season, so helping them with decorations inside, out, or buying a wreath, or a poinsettia, all kinds of little teeny things can make a huge, huge difference. Or maybe somebody needs help shoveling snow, arranging for something like that. Or cutting the grass. Those things are huge.”
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