Suzanne Newman joins Kelley Smith at CarePartners Senior Living to provide a plan for starting the decluttering process for a transition to senior living. Kelley talks about how the conversation often goes, when Mom first sees a potential model unit. You know she’ll need a couch, bed, table and chairs, nightstand — no brainers. But she sees no room for the things that matter to her. If her little crystal animals are that important to her, find a way to bring them. It’s not whether she uses it or not, it’s something that connects her to something she loves. The move itself is traumatic enough, so be kind and listen to what she wants. Honor her for who she is; it’s important to her. Have those conversations with the community. The more people share, the more the community can help.